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Okay, now I’ve lured you in with a literally not incorrect title, let’s get to the real business.

STDs aren’t sexy or fashionable or not-embarrassing, so it’s hard to talk about them. If, like me, you’re a 20-something year old student, you will have been taught about STDs in school and probably been, more than anything, scared about the prospect of ever catching one. And, you probably know that regular STD checks are a good idea.

But talking to your GP about them, or the prospect of going to an STD clinic sounds horrifically embarrassing, so (and this isn’t meant to patronise, this is all from personal experience of embarrassment at talking) you put off getting checked…

I won’t scare you with horror stories of what happens if you, god forbid, catch an STD, because you’ve almost definitely heard it all before, but what if I told you that it’s actually not difficult or, more importantly, mortifying to get hold of a test and do it at home? For free?! Enjoy the benefits of the NHS while you still can and do yourself a favour: if you live in Southampton, even if just during term time, you can order a test to be sent straight to your house, you do it at home and post back, then receive the results by text. FOR FREE! So why not?!

https://www.letstalkaboutit.nhs.uk/worried-about-stis/order-a-test-online/

“Worried-about-stis” is a bit of a mis-labelling I feel, as current advice states that if you are sexuality active you should get tested at least once a year and every time you have sex with a different partner [ref: CDC.gov].

See https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/healthy-body/how-to-use-self-test-kits-safely/ for more information about what’s safe, and how to get hold of free tests in various parts of the country.

Seriously consider doing a test. It’s one of the best things you can do for your health, takes minimal time and effort, and you can be safe in the knowledge that you won’t pass anything on to any future partners. Woo free stuff!!

Hinduism recognises transgender brides

“Hijras”: people of the third gender, have always been a symbol of loyalty and the power to bless or curse in Hinduism. This “third gender” is often thought of as just transsexual people, but the group also includes intersex people.

Despite their special place in Hinduism, hijras have received a more negative reputation since British colonisation in India in the mid 19th-century; the Brits brought with them a strict code of judgement against homosexuality, transgender people and hijras.

However, recent strides in transgender equality have been made. In 2014, the supreme court of India ruled that transgender people could identify as a third gender.

In 2017, claims of the first official male to female gender reassignment operation broke headlines in India; prior to this, operations had been carried out by untrained non-surgeons, leading to many complications and sometimes becoming fatal.

In early April this year Sneha Kale, a trans woman, ran as a candidate for India’s general election, with little of the backing that is the norm for political candidates. She said that
“I have the support of the weak and the marginalised,” which is why she stands strongly with 4 other transgender candidates; a historical high for the Indian trans community.

In the last week, in a landmark ruling, the Madras high court has ruled that a transgender woman can be a bride in a Hindu marriage.

The judge overseeing the case, Judge G R Swaminathan , said that “Gender identity falls within the domain of her personal autonomy and involves her right to privacy and dignity. It is not for the State authorities to question this self-determination of the second petitioner herein.”

This recognition of the dignity which a person’s gender identity should have is a very encouraging step towards the acceptance of the transgender community in the Indian subcontinent, and we can only hope that a result of this historical decision is that other nations decide to follow suit.


To read more about trans people in India:

https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/04/25/hindu-trans-women-now-recognised-bride-marriage/

https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/15-trans-women-tie-the-knot-in-a-mass-wedding-in-chhattisgarh/story-JtMk2QmALI4oEcTM71A30I.html

https://www.thehindu.com/todays-paper/tp-national/Sex-change-operation-done-in-Kerala-government-hospital/article17095553.ece

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-india-elections-lgbt/revered-yet-rejected-indias-trans-women-seek-their-place-in-parliament-idUSKCN1RM1P0

https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/life/culture/article/2018/04/17/life-transgender-woman-india